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When we seek answers in tarot about love, we sometimes get caught up in questions that, instead of providing clarity, only leave us more entangled. Making mistakes when consulting tarot can lead to incorrect interpretations—or even greater confusion. Tarot isn’t an oracle to predict with precision whether someone will come back or change; it’s a guide to understanding the energy at play in our relationships and how we can act for our greatest well-being.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated with a reading, you might have fallen into one of these mistakes. Don’t worry; today I’ll reveal them to you and show you how to avoid them so that your future readings are truly enlightening. 🔮
Asking from Desperation Instead of Clarity
It’s natural to crave immediate answers when love hurts. However, if you approach tarot with anxiety, you’re likely to interpret the cards from a place of fear rather than truth. Instead of asking, “Will my ex come back?”, try asking, “What do I need to learn from this relationship?” or “How can I open myself up to new romantic possibilities?” Tarot will always speak to you—the key is to ask the right questions.
Focusing on the Other Person Instead of Yourself
One of the most common mistakes is putting all your attention on the other person: “Do they love me?”, “Will they change?”, “What do they feel for me?” Yet, tarot is a tool for self-discovery. Instead, ask yourself: “How is this relationship affecting my well-being?” or “What do I need to heal within myself to attract a healthy connection?” The power of transformation is in your hands. ✨
Not Being Prepared to Hear the Truth
Sometimes we want the cards to tell us what we want to hear, and when the answer isn’t as expected, we resist it. But tarot isn’t meant to sugarcoat reality—it’s there to show you what you need to know. If a reading makes you uncomfortable, rather than dismissing it, ask yourself, “What message is here for me?” Remember, tarot doesn’t judge; it guides.
Repeatedly Asking the Same Question
Continuously asking the same question in the hope of receiving a different answer only creates more confusion. If you’ve already had a reading on a topic, give yourself time to absorb the information and act accordingly. Tarot doesn’t work under pressure—it works with trust. If you keep seeking answers about the same issue, ask yourself if you’re really avoiding accepting the truth.
Not Taking Action After the Reading
Tarot isn’t instant magic; it’s a compass. If you receive a powerful message and do nothing about it, nothing will change. If tarot tells you it’s time to let go, work on letting go. If it invites you to open up to love, do so consciously. True transformation happens when you take action.
Final Reflection: Tarot as a Guide, Not a Verdict
Remember, tarot is a mirror of your energy and internal processes. Avoiding mistakes when consulting tarot will help you get clearer and more useful answers. If you learn to ask from the right place and open yourself up to receive honestly, every reading will be an opportunity for growth. So, the next time you consult tarot about love, take a deep breath, formulate your question with intention, and get ready to discover what you truly need to know. 💜
